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“Run for Nature”

Many runs keep happening in Bangalore to support various causes. I happened to be part of one such run which I really loved the cause. It was organized by “Revive Bangalore” and was to improve the green cover in Bangalore.

Though the running track was just the neighboring roads , the focus was more on promoting the cause. It is always heartening to see so much crowd in the early hours of weekend, assemble in the cold weather giving importance to fitness and health. The atmosphere is always infectious, encouraging you to not stop and motivated to keep going until you reach the finish line.

Today, at the end of the run, each and every one was given a sapling which they can take home. There were mango, guava, jamun and many other types of saplings which would grow into big trees and give good shade. Really loved this idea. After this run, each participant would plant one tree each, atleast for the sake of the free sapling they got. I gave my Jamun sapling to the apartment security bhaiyya to plant it in the garden in our apartment. That means atleast a few hundred more trees are going to get added today 🙂

I felt so happy today and couldn’t stop myself from writing about it..Hope that many such causes come forward, where health is combined with a good cause 🙂

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Its all in the mind

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Most of us would have heard this statement “Its all in your mind” many a times in life. Today while I was browsing through facebook I came across this brilliant comic strip and it made me think again about this topic.

It happened to me many a times, when I am in a sad or angry state and a well wisher tells me this line. In that state, you get into the defensive state thinking the person is just saying some random words for name sake and doesn’t really understand your feelings. At times it also makes you angry thinking the person is blaming the situation on you. I have been in such situations and felt this way, until I saw it from a outsider point of view. That really changed my perspective.

This happened during a trek  to Himalayas with one of my friends (am sure she would not mind me writing about this – however, I would not want to disclose her identity). Himalayas being so peaceful and serene, everyone visiting the place experiences a different kind of feeling, which is a bit more amplified than in general  – euphoria or emotional or peaceful or nostalgic or enlightened. That place gives  everyone peaceful time to reflect and think about things which otherwise we do not find time in the regular busy life. One of my friends got reminded of a really fateful incident and it affected her emotionally. She started feeling so low and getting into a shell, that it was getting difficult for us to bring her back. What she did not realize was she was physically as strong and was able to complete the designated part of trek each day.

On the last day, she reached the peak which is at an altitude of 16,000 feet, which is not at all an easy feat. She accomplished the goal, reached the summit and the beautiful view was right before her eyes. But she just sat on a rock there, not even looking around, feeling emotional and low. That was when it struck me how brain can play games. Physically she accomplished such an awesome task, but brain was not allowing her to acknowledge and enjoy that. Slowly we tried to explain her the same and after some time she realized what she was missing. That was when she got back and later we really enjoyed the view, took pictures, played with the snow and came back with wonderful memories.

That incident gave me a first hand experience in realizing what friends and family say – on how brain can play games and make you feel things which are not real. You can feel as if you are nothing, inspite of achieving many things. Everytime I get upset, I try to recall and re-tell myself the lesson learnt from this experience. In other words, I try to kick my brain to stop what it is doing and listen to heart 🙂  😛 … Everyone should try to do that 🙂

PS: What I wrote is purely based on my understanding and experiences. There is no scientific base or researched material..

 

 

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New life chapter…

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So… It was time to leave office and I was sitting at my office desk, wondering what do I do with all the free time I am going to get from today on after reaching home…

My lil sister with whom I stayed till now moved to a faraway land to chase her dreams.. I just got married (still cant digest the fact ) and my prince Charming is coming from a faraway land to be with me… In the midst of these transitions, I seem to have some me-time for myself..

So, time to reflect on the changes in life – new chapters starting in the book of life..some good old memories…Let me look at it this way : My old room-mate left and I am getting a new room-mate 🙂 … As much as I am excited about this new chapter, I miss my li’l sister a lot…a lot and lot!!

We has such great memories, all the fun we had together, shopping sprees, late night chats, stupid talks about intellectual stuff to the extent of start-up ideas 😛 , Korean dramas, dinners, cooking trials, treks, trips, goofy acts, stage performances, flash mobs, coffee chats at office, gossip, CCD hangouts, Car drives, weekend binges and many many more. Inspite of being the little one, she has somehow been my guide and strength for the last couple of years. I am terribly missing her, but knowing that this move is needed in her life and mine, I am trying to move along with the cheese (inspired from ” Who moved my cheese”)…

While I sit back and wait for the new chapter to start in my life, meanwhile let me grab a book and get lost in the imaginary world, get back in touch with my hobby and save myself from the nostalgia of memories with sister !!!

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Beautiful Munnar

I couldn’t stop myself from writing about this..Last week we visited Munnar and I absolutely fell in love with the place. The monsoons are just starting and the place looks even more beautiful with on and off showers. The lush greenery, beautiful climate will make anyone feel lost in the beauty of nature 

After what I felt in Himalayas, I felt the same amount of euphoric joy and peace in munnar.. the plantations all around are absolutely beautiful..you can find coffee, tea, cardamom, pepper, pineapple, jackfruit, banana, what not..Anyone planning to go for a hill station, I would definitely recommend munnar.  

We stayed at “Ambady resort ” which is a queit and peaceful estate of 125km full of plantations with just 8 cottages. They prepare all the food, organic from home grown plantation. The cottages are peaceful and interiors are beautifully decorated. 

cottage in Ambady resort

personal patio for each cottage

pineapple plant

tea plantation

coffee plants

tapioca plants

pepper plantation

jackfruit plants

athirapally watertfalls (where bahubali was shot)

Be sure to visit this place atleast once. The natural beauty is spell binding..don’t miss it..

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if only…. (#short story)

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He was lying there wounded and in pain.. She wanted to go to him, but he dint let her go any closer.. She stood there staring at him helpless and hurt, seeing him suffering.. She wanted to do something, but dint know what to do.. he wouldn’t let her even move close to him .. He said “you have broken my heart..you have hurt me..all your false promises broke me today..you used me” ..

Those words struck her heart and a sharp pain arose ..”I did not know how that happened.. I never wanted to hurt him..I had always tried my best to do all that I can, though I knew it was not enough! But I never wanted to hurt him.. I have always loved him dearly with all my heart” She thought .. She felt guilty, hurt and hopeless

She stood there staring at him with tears in her eyes and no words to defend herself.. He was bleeding and she felt of no use.. He looked at her fiercely and closed the door..For the first time she felt scared of him..She wanted to hold him and rest his head on her lap and tend to his wound, but she was not able to move even an inch .

He was angry and hurt due to her. He dint want to see her. He felt betrayed and hopeless. “I loved her so much and she dint care enough” he thought..

She sat there beside the door thinking of ways to make things right! She wanted to talk, reason out and find some way in which he would open the door and let her in.. But her brain couldn’t think of anything useful.. whatever she said sounded so lame and she was not sure if he even heard her.. Meanwhile a dull pain started in her head and she started feeling difficulty in breathing..

He was able to listen to her every word.. But he felt too numb with hurt to even respond.. He wanted her to do something.. do something and reach out to him.. Make him trust her again.. words were not enough for him…

Hours and hours went by and she couldn’t do anything.. “How can I save him just sitting here and talking.. I dont know what is going on his mind ..What can I do to fix things..” she thought

She felt weak and devoid of energy and her mind was not helping..

Feeling helpless and hopeless, she leaned against the wall and remembered all the good memories they had..

Tired and exhausted, he leaned against the wall and escaped into memories of them together..

Both of them, just remained there until they succumbed to the pain…

If only, the wall between them could be broken…

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Beautiful mind..

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The other day, I got this new perfume. I love shopping for random new fragrances. The next day when I used it, the smell of the perfume, brought back the fond memories of the trip I took one year back. Then I got reminded, I used the same perfume during the trip that time. The fragrance suddenly made me feel elated, happy (the way I felt during the trip a year back)

That made me think, how beautiful our mind is. How a smell can trigger back the memories related to that and make it feel so real..take us back to those times..

Our senses are amazing, isn’t it? Listening to some songs takes us back to those times and replay those memories once again. Some memories bring tears when we miss those times or people, while some memories bring smiles to our faces as we recall the happy times. Some words/sentences remind us of the people who often use them..

The taste of Mango avakai sent by mom, brings back the memories of home. Where mom is serving avakai with ghee, sitting at home and having a sumptous lunch chatting with mom, dad and sisters.

Seeing some pictures, photos, movie scenes or some places can trigger memories associated with them. Its amazing!! While modern day digital photos can store memories, there is always limit to the storage. But our brain, there is practically no limit at all. It can save all the memories and bring back those memories along with the feel associated with them..

In awe with the beauty of our mind…beautiful!! 🙂 🙂

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Learn to say NO

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Most of us have this problem of not being able to say “No” in most situations.

There could be multiple reasons behind this –

-> you don’t want to do some thing but cant say it on the face, as you don’t want to hurt the other person

-> you know you can’t do it (or don’t want to do it) but can’t say it out of fear/respect towards the other person

-> you are not sure whether you can do it, but still say ‘yes’ because you want to do it somehow (or hope to do it)

-> you don’t want to do it, but just to keep your good impression, you go ahead and say yes and don’t care much about it (thatz rude :/)

-> You think you are a super man/woman who can do anything to keep everyone happy 😛

Am sure most of us can identify ourselves in above situations. Either of the case above, what we have to realize is that, we ourselves will be the ones to bear the damage.

At work, if you commit to something and not able to perform later, it can be treated as under-performance. You will not have a chance to give explanation, as you would be told you should have fore-seen it before accepting the task (which is valid). So, its better to think in all dimensions before committing to something

In personal life too, if you commit to something and not able to do it, it can be treated as not keeping promises or not being sincere. So, instead of giving hopes and later being seen as someone who doesn’t stand by their words , its better to weigh the situation carefully before saying yes to something or someone.

Even if you cant say no as you don’t want to hurt the other person, remember that saying yes and then not keeping your word can cause more damage.

So, whatever the case may be – learn to say “No” whenever it is needed. Its OK to say NO at times !!

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Happy Sankranti :)

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 Like everytime, we came to our hometown for festival holidays and all the roads are filled with colorful rangolis wishing happy sankranti.

This took me back to my childhood days when the real celebration of sankranti was there. Sankranti is considered the biggest festival in Andhra, mainly as it is during the harvest season. Since the harvest is ready, people used to celebrate the new harvest with every member of family. 

The day before sankranti is celebrated as Bhogi, where “bhogi manta” (bon fire) is made early in the morning . It indicates burning away all the bad things of the past and start afresh for future. Beautiful rangolis are made infront of the houses.

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Then there is Hari-Dasu (considered as the Lord Narada himself) who comes to every house for a handful of grains and blesses each family with wealth and prosperity.

Image result for haridasuGangireddu is another festival speciality, in which the gangireddus (bulls decorated and worshipped – considered as Nandi – the vaahanam (vehicle) of Lord Shiva himself) are brought along with the person accompanying them (considered as Lord Shiva himself) playing beautiful songs from their melam (a percussion instrument). Every household gives some grains to the person and some clothes to cover the bull and receives blessings from them. It is considered that on the eve of the festival, Lord Shiva himself comes down with his Nandi to visit each family and bless them.

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Another specialty of the festival is lip-smacking sweets and savouries. All the members of the family sit together and make the tasty items. Also, this day of the year, everyone makes sure to remember their elders (who passed away) and give some offerings to them.

The  colorful kites flying in the skies celebrate the spirit of Sankranti. Sankranthi is all about thanking God for the happiness, celebrating new beginnings and spending time with family!!

Wish you all a Happy Sankranthi!!

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A day with the kids

Today as part of our LOTUS activities, we had a science workshop for the kids (6th and 7th). It was so much fun looking at the excitement in their eyes as they finished one experiment after other.
We have chosen simple experiments which would mainly look like toys with a concept of science behind. The kids were so excited at the working models and were also curious to know how and why it worked that way. Working with them brought out the child in us and we also had as much fun.

We had referred to this wonderful site of Aravind toys – which is about making toys from every day available materials with a simple concept of science behind. All those interested can take a look at their site : http://www.arvindguptatoys.com/toys.html

Here are some pictures from the event…


Keep the child in you alive  🙂 🙂

 

 

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an unplanned date..

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I looked at my phone and dialed Rahul..”I want to shop for a money purse for my dad..can you help me”, I asked him. “Sure, I will call you back in five mins” he said. I had an office outing in the first half of the day and the second half was free.  He must be in office and busy, but I felt like asking him anyway.

I have known Rahul since the last two months. He is my friend’s colleague and has been trying a lot to ask me out. However, many things happened in the last couple of years in my life due to which I stopped thinking about love, relationship or guys.

Some days later, as we chatted on gtalk, I told him how I was not interested in all these things and he should not waste his time around me. I said “I don’t want to give you false hopes by befriending you”. But all he said was “The fact that I like you is my problem. I will take care of it. You don’t worry about it and just be my friend. That is all I want”. Very good at words, I dint know how to say no to that.

Today is the first time I have called him on my own. I was not sure why, but I decided to not think much and listen to my heart. As I was deeply immersed in my thoughts, my phone rang. He said “Can you come to marathalli. I enquired with my friends and they say we can find the money purse there. I could come and pick you, but my office is very far, so it would waste lot of time”.  I smiled at him trying to explain, after all he was helping me out here – why is he trying to explain to me.

I took an auto and reached marathalli. He was already there waiting for me. We checked couple of shops, but they dint have what I wanted.  As we were looking in the shops, it felt strange for me, after many years this was the first time I came out shopping with a guy. I wonder what was different in this guy, that made me do this.

We decided we better try at Commerical street, we will definitely find it there. He asked me to wait at the exit gate and he would get his bike from parking. As I waited there, I thought I was going to sit on a guy’s bike after many years. What am I doing? Is it OK? Am I giving hopes to this guy when I clearly was not ready for it? The sound of the horn, brought me back to reality – I had phased out again. He was there coming on his bike, and I must say, he looked very handsome. He stopped infront of me, took off his helmet and said “I wish I had a camera now, to capture the view. It is so beautiful”.  The way he looked into my eyes and said this, made my heart flutter and a hint of smile appear on my lips. He was obviously referring to me. Normally, listening to such lines, I would have felt how cheesy they are, but to my surprise I could feel myself blushing.

I quickly avoided his gaze and got onto the back seat. He was very good at driving, I was impressed by the way he maneuvered the Airport road traffic. We chatted some random stuff all along and I could notice him stealing glances at me through his bike mirror. “I am so happy today that a girl has got onto my bike” he said as we stopped at a traffic signal. “As if no other girl, got on your bike. Don’t tell me” I said.  “I mean, a girl who I like”.. I was a bit happy listening to this, but was worried at the same time. “Oh! No!! I am giving false indications” I thought. I decided to take control and said “Rahul, I told you how I felt. I can’t come with you if you feel that way about me.. ”. “Relax!” he said, “I am just telling you the truth. Besides, there is nothing you should feel so worried about. Don’t think much and just enjoy the moment. Life is all about memories”.

We reached commercial street and found a very good bag for dad. It started getting dark and the streets were illuminated. It looked beautiful. Walking on the streets with him by my side, talking all nonsense– it felt weird. Weird but nice, nice and fun. I actually liked spending time with him, but there was something stopping me from admitting it to myself.

The walking around and shopping made me hungry. We decided to stop at McD to grab a burger. As we sat there facing each other having our burgers, it felt nice and relaxing after a long day. We talked about our past crushes, office stories etc etc. Amidst all these, one thing I noticed was the way he looked at me. There was so much love in his eyes and I couldn’t dare to look straight into them. I was not able to hold eye contact for more than a second, don’t know why. Probably I felt, that way he will be able to peek into my soul and know how I started feeling about him. I know that sounds too filmy, but blame the number of Rom-Coms I watch :).

I realized that it was already 8pm and I was getting late. I wondered how fast time has flown. As we walked back to the bike parking, the roads were a bit deserted now. The cool night, the empty roads and the moon light, it felt nice to walk with him. I told him to walk slow as I was not able to catch up with him. He said, his mother is also like me, she walks slow and says the same. Somehow, I liked that he remembered his mother while being with me.

He promised to take me home before 9pm and we reached well in advance, thanks to his driving skills. As he dropped me off at my home, I thanked him for helping me out. He said he was glad I called him today and he had a wonderful time. As I said my Bye and walked towards the lift, I started thinking – all these feelings I felt today, are they real? I never thought I could feel this way about a guy again, after what happened in my past. He made me feel special, he made me feel loved. Should I be cautious, take a step back and avoid it? Or should I go with it?

For once, do not think much and let things happen…Just enjoy the moment.. you deserve some love…my heart told me… ❤